礼轻情义重

Do you know what is the meaning?

I feel like posting in my personal blog but then feel that I shall cross-post it.

A lot of times I wish to tell my friends not to have this kind of arrangement where you buy presents for each other on their birthdays.

I gotten mine for the past few years but I have not used them. :p

My friends are nice enough to buy me presents but sometimes when the presents are not up to my liking, it gets wasted and become a white elephant.

Yeah I am choosy, picky whatever you may say but I just want to put the message across by not wasting money to buy presents that I don't need. ><

Maybe I shall propose to have a wishlist. :p

I want an ipod (I can afford it but I have too many commitments).

I don't know but what can I expect in return by forking that kind of money? I don't know. Probably nothing.

I rather want a treat than a present, I love to eat but when it comes to things/presents, I would prefer to buy on my own or make a wishlist.